HAPPILY EVER AFTER BETRAYAL IS POSSIBLE... FIND OUT HOW
You CAN overcome the pain and frustration of betrayal
& trust your husband again.
Without years of marriage counseling or talk therapy.
Imagine having a partner who treats you the way you want to be treated.
Who's as devoted to you as you are to him.
Who, even though you are a capable badass, makes you feel like a modern fairytale princess.
Standing tall by your side, he's your very own knight in shining armor - ready to take on the kids, the house, the entire world.
No nagging, whining, pleading, or cajoling required.
This modern-day fairytale IS possible.
Without trying to "change" your husband (which doesn't work).
Without endless talk therapy (which can take years to maybe work).
And without settling for anything less than you both deserve (which just breeds resentment).
YOUR FAIRYTALE MARRIAGE IS ON THE OTHER SIDE OF BETRAYAL.
You CAN have a strong, bonded, trusting, dream relationship.
Even if you feel...
💔 crushed and hopeless right now.
💔 like maybe he's not capable of change.
💔 like there's no going back.
💔 like you're just roommates instead of husband and wife.
Just like I once did.
I love you too.
There, on the screen, were four words you never want to see.
My world had been flipped upside down and I was devastated.
In a fit full of rage, I threw his phone at him.
"What the hell is this?!"
Instantly, he woke up and his face dropped. Guilt and sadness replaced the irritation, and he quietly mumbled, "I don't know...I'm so sorry."
Felt like the life that I dreamed of was slipping away in front of my eyes...
Until one morning I said fuck this.
I KNEW we were meant to grow old together. I KNEW we could get over this. I just needed to figure out how.
❌Without compromising myself, my self-respect, my values.
❌Without blaming myself anymore.
❌Without telling myself I must have been a bad wife for him to need to cheat.
Sat him down. Looked him dead in the eye.
"I'm going to stay, but this will never happen again."
And it hasn't.
Has it been all sunshine and roses?
Hell no.
Has it been hard letting go and trusting him again?
Hell yes.
But I made two key shifts that changed everything.
Went from
🩷 being suspicious to trusting
🩷 walking on eggshells to speaking my mind
🩷feeling unwanted to CHERISHED
And you can, too.
CHERISHED RELATIONSHIPS is a program that....
🩷 Shows you the 2 shifts that will transform your marriage.
🩷 Teaches you how to use your energetics to create the relationship of your dreams.
🩷 Empowers you to command a respectful, loving, reciprocal partnership.
🩷 Gives you the tools to manage your mind and reduce the anxiety and insecurity you feel surrounding your husband's affair.
and is for women who...
🩷 are sick of being resilient and would rather be revered.
🩷 want to have a true partner who does just as much as you, if not more,
to take care of your family.
🩷 are tired of feeling like their intrusive thoughts, anger, and mood swings control them.
🩷 want to rewrite their love story.
CHERISHED RELATIONSHIPS won't just transform your marriage...
it will transform ALL of your relationships.
Hi, I'm Nicole.
Once upon a time, I felt like all of my relationships were slipping away.
My husband, Adam, and I were more like roommates than soul mates.
Found it challenging to be my parents' daughter AND a mother to my kids.
And kept my guard up around my in-laws.
Using the techniques inside of this program, I was able to...
Start connecting on a deeper level with my children and actually feel like a good mother.
Repair my relationship with my parents, creating a stronger bond with my own mother that allowed her to be a fantastic grandmother.
Strengthen my relationship with my in-laws so that I finally felt welcomed, accepted, and loved and started receiving more love and support.
CHERISHED RELATIONSHIPS helps you align with having a happy and healthy relationship
...even if it means your current one needs to come to an end.
Just like my client, C...
When C came to me, she really wanted to make her relationship with her partner work.
But...she had doubts. Wasn't sure if they were fully compatible for the long haul.
Even so, she wanted to try.
So she did.
And for a while - things absolutely improved.
Until it became readily apparent that he couldn't give her what she needed, and she finally knew, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that she deserved someone who could and would.
She broke things off with her partner and is now getting clear on exactly what and who she wants to call in for her life-long partner to cherish and adore her.
And she did so without any lingering "what ifs?"
After all, happily ever after means YOU ending up feeling happy, whole, and loved.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
What's included with the program?
Once you join Cherished Relationships, you'll receive:
🩷 12 months of access to weekly group coaching calls
🩷 10 pre-recorded modules covering topics from emotional regulation, trust building, and communication
🩷 1-on-1 onboarding call to map out your happily ever after
🩷 Three 1-on-1 relationship alignment calls for your partner to catch him up and show him how to support you in the process of healing your marriage
🩷 Private community for individualized support between calls with unlimited Q&A
What if it doesn't work? What if we end up separating even after going through the program?
Deep breath, friend.
The truth is, some marriages can't be turned around. It all depends on the nature of the betrayal and both individuals commitment to repairing the rift. If your partner hasn't ended the affair, is continuing to betray your trust, or hasn't expressed remorse, then this likely isn't the program for you.
But, if you ARE both committed to giving it a try and it doesn't work, you will have the tools to create your dream partnership in the future. And, if you have kids, it will allow you to maintain a respectful relationship as co-parents.
What IS emotionally intelligent energetics?
Emotionally intelligent energetics is actively choosing the way you want to think and feel along with aligning with and balancing your masculine and feminine energy while interacting with your husband.
This is what also allows you to respond instead of react during conversations and arguments, nurturing effective, loving communication.
Inside of Cherished Relationships, you'll learn how to balance your feminine and masculine energy, which is what leads to having a satisfying, polarized, chemistry-filled marriage.
You'll also learn how to tap into your energetics in conversations with your husband that will inspire him to cherish, respect, and adore you.
What if I'm not sure I want to stay?
Honestly, deciding to stay or go after betrayal is such a personal decision.
This program is best suited for those who are willing to go all in on their marriage, even if they're not 100% they want to stay.
Why? Simply because making an energetic commitment to doing so will produce better results, rather than constantly being on the fence.
That being said...there are a lot of factors that go into deciding whether to stay or go, so if you're not sure if this is the right decision for you, I'd suggest booking a 1:1 call with me where we can discuss your options more thoroughly.
I believe that everyone is deserving of having a happy, healthy relationship- even if that means separating from your spouse, which is why I have several other providers to refer clients to in the event that my program is not the best match.
Click Here to book a 1:1 call.
Are you a marriage counselor? What's the difference between couples therapy and this program?
I am not a marriage counselor, I'm a marriage coach.
Here's why this matters - inside of Cherished Relationships, we are focused on creating the relationship that you WANT, not endlessly processing trauma and mediating conflicts.
You'll get access to the techniques and tools based on my real-life experience over the last 15 years with my husband that will show you how to create the modern-day fairytale relationship that you desire.
I strongly believe that you are more than capable of learning the tools you need to process your emotions, navigate conflict, and improve the connection, trust, and intimacy between you and your husband without needing to be across from a therapist.
The goal of Cherished Relationships is to equip you with what you need to maintain a happy, healthy relationship by the time you leave.
I'm scared to let my guard down -will this help me start to trust my husband again and move on with my life?
This is exceedingly common, and for good reason, too.
Inside of the program, you'll learn exactly what is needed to start building more trust with your husband including how to set clear boundaries and expectations, as well as what to do when your husband doesn't follow through.
In addition, you'll also learn how to emotionally regulate through the triggers and intrusive thoughts that pop up so you can stop feeling like you need to track his GPS constantly or check his phone every day.
Okay, I'm in...what happens next?
As soon as you press, "Complete Order", you'll receive access to the client portal where all of the pre-recorded modules are held. You can watch these as quickly as you want to start making changes in your marriage.
You'll then be directed to the onboarding page where you'll be asked to fill out a relationship self-assessment which will give me and you a solid understanding of exactly where you and your husband are right now, as well as where you want to be.
Next up, you'll schedule your 1:1 onboarding call where we'll create your own custom roadmap to happily ever after based on the assessment you completed, which will include the major action steps and key shifts you need to make in order to transform your marriage into your modern-day fairytale.
Then, you'll get the link to join the private member's only group where you can ask questions 24/7.
And finally, you'll be asked to take the Tony Robbins DISC personality assessment which gives me valuable information about the way you think and behave so that I can best coach you.
Last but not least, celebrate! This is a big fucking deal. Do a happy dance, drink a glass of wine, and cheers to going all in on your marriage. You deserve it.